Kaffy Reveals Reason For Divorce From Ex-Husband, Papii J

Nigerian dancer, Kafayat Shafau popularly known as Kaffy has opened up on one of the major reasons for her divorce from former husband and drummer, Joseph Ameh aka Papii J

In a chat with Chude Jideonwo on his show #WithChude, the popular choreographer revealed the major reason being that her ex-husband was sleeping with other women.

She lso revealed that he wasn’t only sleeping with other women but her best friends.

“If I had known I won’t have jumped into that fire, I thought he was just sleeping with strangers but I found out he was sleeping with my best friends, people I knew…I was thinking at the beginning that I had found someone to completely make me happy but that was selfish thinking, no human being should be your source of happiness,” she said.

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When asked about her healing process, the mother of two stated that she had to be celibate for three years just before her divorce.

“Lemme tell you when I started getting more healing…when I stopped sleeping with my husband. I was celibate with my husband for three years before I got a divorce. There are different red flags that we women in love are so blind to see,” she added.

Kaffy revealed earlier in January during one of the episodes of her podcast, JustKaffy that her marriage had crashed.

“I have always wanted to see the best vision of my ex and even taking the chance of breaking this marriage was also to see that we both grew into what we really really are supposed to be,” she said at that time.

There had been reports in 2021 that the dancer’s marriage to Ameh had crashed until she confirmed it.

Kaffy and Ameh got married in 2012. They share two children together.