Man Shares 7 Raw Practical Lessons From Marriage

There might be no manual to marriage but a certain Twitter user who also identifies as Rowly, a pharmacist has shared seven raw practical lessons learnt from his seven years of marriage.
According to him, these tips have kept his marriage in check for several years and counting.

See below;

1. Never compare your wife to another woman, in any area whatsoever.

DON OF LAGOS on Twitter: “If you do this, that relationship won’t see the light of day. It will only end in frustration.When you do this, it only demoralizes & dampens your partner especially when you say it. It kills the spark in that marriage.Most times you think it, but stop.Avoid it at all cost. / Twitter”
If you do this, that relationship won’t see the light of day. It will only end in frustration.When you do this, it only demoralizes & dampens your partner especially when you say it. It kills the spark in that marriage.Most times you think it, but stop.Avoid it at all cost.

2. Never hide your finances from your spouse

DON OF LAGOS on Twitter: “These women are better at home finance management.I was a spender but was not aware I was until I got married.If she is someone who spends without caring about the future or doesn’t care about any budget that could be drawn to manage money, my brother you are on your own o 🤣 / Twitter”
These women are better at home finance management.I was a spender but was not aware I was until I got married.If she is someone who spends without caring about the future or doesn’t care about any budget that could be drawn to manage money, my brother you are on your own o 🤣

3. Always be truthful to your spouse about your friends of the opposite sex

DON OF LAGOS on Twitter: “I am a terrific extrovert & I could be engaging someone & get so carried away without my wife knowing about it; so this was becoming an issue, then I had to adjust.Nobody at all likes to be in that situation. To avoid wahala let your partner know about the person & all / Twitter”
I am a terrific extrovert & I could be engaging someone & get so carried away without my wife knowing about it; so this was becoming an issue, then I had to adjust.Nobody at all likes to be in that situation.

4. Never raise your voice on your wife, Never

DON OF LAGOS on Twitter: “enough reason to try overpower your partner with your voice.It isn’t right. It psychologically & mentally weakens your partner, killing the spark between you two.Even if you are right, sometimes keep quiet until it all goes down. I know it is tough but you can do it. / Twitter”
enough reason to try overpower your partner with your voice.It isn’t right. It psychologically & mentally weakens your partner, killing the spark between you two.Even if you are right, sometimes keep quiet until it all goes down. I know it is tough but you can do it.

5. Never watch Porn

DON OF LAGOS on Twitter: “It would seem like you’re learning 1 or 2 things but it is a lie cos the thing you claim you learnt, you won’t be able to practice it cos your partner isn’t a pornstar.However, your mind has been damaged by your expectations not being met; there is a urge to fulfil it. / Twitter”
It would seem like you’re learning 1 or 2 things but it is a lie cos the thing you claim you learnt, you won’t be able to practice it cos your partner isn’t a pornstar.However, your mind has been damaged by your expectations not being met; there is a urge to fulfil it.

6. Manage Inlaw Relationship well

DON OF LAGOS on Twitter: “in the mud or like tiger gen.Remember you are one & if you allow it, it will continue & even you will lose your worth in their eyes.Don’t wait till later to address it. Address it respectfully on the spot.It bind you both more & your partner respects & loves you more for it / Twitter”
in the mud or like tiger gen.Remember you are one & if you allow it, it will continue & even you will lose your worth in their eyes.Don’t wait till later to address it.

7. Your partner should always be your priority

DON OF LAGOS on Twitter: “side & then your eyes will clear. Don’t lose that closeness & affection. Let it get stronger & better.Create moments with her alone without the kids…Let the kids watch you both grow in affectionate love – this is one of the best gifts you can give your kids. / Twitter”
side & then your eyes will clear. Don’t lose that closeness & affection. Let it get stronger & better.Create moments with her alone without the kids…Let the kids watch you both grow in affectionate love – this is one of the best gifts you can give your kids.