“Unmatched Efforts And Suppressed Feelings” - People Open Up On The Causes Of Resentment In Relationships

Almost like the growing rate in the price of dollar, the rate of divorces has taken a great surge this year.

It is no surprise that it has a lot of people imagining this rise to be as a result of resentment held on for a long time, hence, why most divorces are cited as due to “irreconcilable differences”. Even after 27 years.

A viral question on twitter has people laying out the various causes of resentment in relationships.

Read some responses below:

David 🎙 on Twitter: “Lack of communication for start. You’re bound to piss someone off in a relationship but the second you don’t talk about it, the worse it’ll get. https://t.co/O65VvA9jZF / Twitter”
Lack of communication for start. You’re bound to piss someone off in a relationship but the second you don’t talk about it, the worse it’ll get. https://t.co/O65VvA9jZF

Luko 🐺 on Twitter: “The “Little” things. The little annoyances you brush off, the little sacrifices you make w/out them even knowing, the little efforts that go unnoticed, those little feelings of being unappreciated, those little compromises made that leave you feeling cheated… https://t.co/pbwWpdWOee / Twitter”
The “Little” things. The little annoyances you brush off, the little sacrifices you make w/out them even knowing, the little efforts that go unnoticed, those little feelings of being unappreciated, those little compromises made that leave you feeling cheated… https://t.co/pbwWpdWOee

𝕃𝕦𝕦. on Twitter: “For me it’s dishonesty, cheating, constantly making me feel like I’m begging you for attention, being nonchalant, gaslighting me, manipulation to make yourself feel better, entertaining other women, and just being a complete dick. I’ll cut you off, forever🤞🏽 https://t.co/33oyxsAeQt / Twitter”
For me it’s dishonesty, cheating, constantly making me feel like I’m begging you for attention, being nonchalant, gaslighting me, manipulation to make yourself feel better, entertaining other women, and just being a complete dick. I’ll cut you off, forever🤞🏽 https://t.co/33oyxsAeQt

💛 on Twitter: “Crossing of boundaries,not being heard,cheating,being gaslight, sorrys that never end. https://t.co/biA3mBV6Dn / Twitter”
Crossing of boundaries,not being heard,cheating,being gaslight, sorrys that never end. https://t.co/biA3mBV6Dn

#11 on Twitter: “Putting your relationship ahead of yourself when making important decisions https://t.co/93yHKkIanL / Twitter”
Putting your relationship ahead of yourself when making important decisions https://t.co/93yHKkIanL

Aunty Chubs 🏳️‍🌈 on Twitter: “Unmatched efforts and suppressed feelings. https://t.co/xPomemLBlU / Twitter”
Unmatched efforts and suppressed feelings. https://t.co/xPomemLBlU

Siyabonga Nkabinde on Twitter: “Tolerating shit you’re really not okay 👌 with in the name of love and sparing their feelings,when one should really be upfront and communicate openly and freely with being comprehended of course… / Twitter”
Tolerating shit you’re really not okay 👌 with in the name of love and sparing their feelings,when one should really be upfront and communicate openly and freely with being comprehended of course…

TONI TONE on Twitter: “Prioritising one person while deprioritising another Choosing to stay after an indiscretion while also holding on to the past, instead of forgiving People not speaking their mind One person dictating all the big decisions alone, instead of working in partnership https://t.co/fRahITHSty / Twitter”
Prioritising one person while deprioritising another Choosing to stay after an indiscretion while also holding on to the past, instead of forgiving People not speaking their mind One person dictating all the big decisions alone, instead of working in partnership https://t.co/fRahITHSty

𝕄𝕒𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕒𝕝𝕒 𝕁𝕟𝕣. on Twitter: “Desmond Ell!ot https://t.co/9llYJIzHGJ / Twitter”
Desmond Ell!ot https://t.co/9llYJIzHGJ

Of course, Desmond Elliot couldn’t escape this

Biya Tifẹ 🌱 on Twitter: “Not reacting. Brings temporary peace and permanent resentment. https://t.co/3TpVoz7chu / Twitter”
Not reacting. Brings temporary peace and permanent resentment. https://t.co/3TpVoz7chu

What are your thoughts on this?